after 2 to 3 days testing everything before i posted this, i have JUST found the solution.
I think...
I had to change the settings on here; as google sent me an email about blocking access to my gmail with the following link by chance...
//www.google.com/settings/security/lesssecureapps
Some devices and apps use insecure sign-in technology to access your data.
Choosing Disable prevents these less secure devices and apps from accessing your Google Account.
Choosing Enable increases your chances of unauthorised account access but allows you to continue using these less secure devices and apps. Learn more
Access for less secure apps
Disable
Enable